Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Twists and Turns

This last week has had a number of times when we had faced twists and turns.  Let me share a few highlights from this last week.


On Monday, my “little” girl turned 8.  She was super excited to have a friend from school come over to play.  One of the things she misses the most about going to school is seeing her friends every day.  So the promise of having a friend over to play was a major reason for excitement.  She was up very early (before either parent was out of bed) and counting the hours.
   All morning the girls played happily together.  All seemed well with the world.  We had a lunch of pepperoni quesadillas (thanks to pepperoni shipped from someone in the states).  It was time for the cake.  I had made her a doll cake and like requested the dress was white and pink. 

I light the candles and started snapping pictures as we merrily sang “Happy Birthday”.   Somewhere around the second “Happy Birthday” I noticed something unusual in the viewfinder of my camera.  It appeared as if the hair of the doll was on fire.  Sure enough, the hair WAS on FIRE.  With some quick blowing, things were calm again.  I moved the offensive candle.  We relight the candles, sung again, and Alissa got to blow out her candles this time all by herself.


It was 4am.  My eyes are firmly shut as I was studying the inside of my eyelids.  I hear somewhere in the distance, “Mom, Mom.”  I shake my head trying to figure out what is going on.  I hear it again, “Mom”.  As I crack open my eyes, I see Alissa standing by the bed.  “What”, I croak.  “Mom, we lost of phase and I’m hot.  Can you help?”  “How do you know?” I ask still confused.  Alissa response with, “My fan isn’t working but the living room and bathroom lights are working, so we much have lost a phase.”  “Lost a phase” my mind searches for understanding.  Then it dawns on me.  The way our house is wired here we have three different phases of electric that enter the house all are suppose to be bringing in 220 volts.  When all three phases work, everything in the house works.  When we lose a phase, certain outlets and light will not work, but other parts of the house has electric.  I glace at our air-conditioning and sure enough it wasn’t working so that meant phase three was out.  I know that phase three also has the kid’s fans on them, which explained the "I’m hot."  I sleepily drag myself out of bed and head to the kid’s room, by this time Conrad is also awake.  We round up some extension cords, getting the fans running again.  From each bed we hear a small, “Thank you.”  And we head back to our room, rig up a fan so we can sleep a little longer.  With fans in place, we all get a few more hours of sleep.

Wednesday was election day here.  Due to some unrest that has been happening in the south of the country (very far from where we live), we had no idea what would happen.  We prayed for peace, had others praying, and trusted the One who is ultimately in control.  It was decided that we would stay at home that day.  So for us it turned into a work day.  We got the front porch painted, a faucet in the kitchen fixed, the first coat of paint on the doll house, some sorting, and a few other things done.  The day was peaceful and quiet.  While in our city, the voting will have to be done again due to errors on the ballot, I thank the Lord for bringing peace to us on a day that had so much potential for harm.
What the porch looked like before
The finished project


I would like to introduce you to the newest member of the family.  

Ok, so maybe it’s not a member of the family but it has made my life just a little bit easier.  Our electric situation here is not very good.  Each phase is supposed to have 220 volts but most times if we see 200, we feel it’s pretty good.  There are times when it dips even lower than 180. This fluctuation in electric is very hard on electric appliances, especially air-conditioners.  Our main air-conditioner has had to be fixed three times in the last month, all due to problems caused by the poor electricity.  Due to our son’s allergies to dust and mold, it’s important that we keep our house as dust free as possible.  Currently, we are in the dust season and the air is full of dust, so we have to use the air-conditioner to help lower the dust in the house.  Friday, Conrad was able to take a couple of hours and find this voltage regulator.  He then hooked it up to the phase that runs the air conditioners.  Up to this point if you had the air on you had to always be listening to the fan and if it started to make “bad” noises, you must run and shut it off and hope it hadn’t ruined anything.  Then you would wait a little and hope the electric was better and try turning it on again.  Since having the voltage regular installed, it has been such a huge blessing to not have to worry about the electric as it keeps the output at somewhere between 205 and 222 volts. Maybe someday we will get the whole house “regulated” but for now I’m so thankful for being able to use the phase three without worry.


As I reflect on the things that have happened this week, I see a thread over and over.  Life here takes flexibility.  Whether it’s a birthday cake fire, a phase of electric  going off, or unrest in the culture, flexibility is a must.  But through all the things that have happened, I see the hand of God caring for us and giving us peace.  As I thought about the voltage regulator, in some ways my God does the same for me.  Life here constantly is throwing us twists and turns.  Causing us to improvise and be flexible. But if our trust is in the Lord, He will keep things manageable.  The moment that I try to handle things by myself, life starts to fall apart.  But as I trust in my Lord, He is the one who will give me peace, flexibility, stability, and the ability to continue on with life.  But more importantly all twists and turns much first go through Him and He will NEVER give me more than I can handle.

A view from the cockpit of the 210 Conrad was flying.

Sunday, November 17, 2013

Caterpillars



  I watched in amazement at the excitement my children displayed as they showed me the caterpillars they had collected at the Wycliffe base.  When I had first suggested that they consider taking a jar to collect caterpillars, they didn't think it sounded like a good idea.  But upon arrival at the Wycliffe base and learning how intriguing caterpillars could be, even my very girly girl was into collecting them. 
   We brought them home in a glass mason canning jar with a lid that had nail holes punched in it.  The children then went to work dividing them amongst themselves.  This is when my youngest got into the act.  In her excitement, she stepped on one of the poor creatures.  Oh the tears that flowed down the face of my little boy.  His little heart was just broken that one of the caterpillars had come to such an untimely end.    As his tears calmed, this sisters and him divided the remaining caterpillars.  The jars were lovingly stuffed with leaves and branches.  We spent the rest of the evening receiving updates on whose caterpillar seemed to be enjoying the leaves the most, whose caterpillar wasn't looking so well, whose caterpillar was crawling on the lid, etc.  The excitement filled the house.


   As I watched my children intrigued with the caterpillars, take ownership in the project, and delight in the creation of our Heavenly Father, my heart was touched.  In the craziness of being a mom, wife, home school teacher, correspondent with supporters, living in a country that is no mine own, etc, I had become tired.  In my weariness, I had forgotten to take pleasure in the little things.  I had forgotten to take time to see the world through the eyes of child.  I was no longer looking for the beauty and adventure of what life was bringing my way, but resigned to just putting one foot in front of the other. 
   As I thought about experience more, I came to the realization that this adventure with the caterpillars went so much better since the children had a jar ready to start the process when they got to the Wycliffe base.  Even so my Heavenly Father has equipped me for the adventure that He has me.  He has given me the “jar” that is needed.  But how do I respond to the adventure He has given me?  Am I too tired, to enjoy the little pleasures?  Am I too weary, to see His Hand guiding my path? Am I too discouraged, to hear His voice through my day?  Is my focus on the “normal” things, so I forget to listen for His voice and see Him in the unexpected?  Or am I embracing this adventure with the eyes of child?  Am I delighting in the new discovery, allowing myself to grieve over the heartbreaks, but be resilient to once again find a way to enjoy the excitement of life?  Do I trust my Heavenly Father enough to know that He has given me the “jar” that is need?
   So for tomorrow, I will try to take the time to see the world as an exciting place.  I will try to take time to pause, reflect, and enjoy the adventure of my life here.  I will try to effectively use the “jar” that I find in my hand.